Leaving the best for last. This advanced spread eagle position is by far my favourite. Completely vulnerable all your partner will be able to do is lay back and watch you pleasure them. This position is perfect for exposing your partner allowing easier access to stimulate a woman’s clitorus or G-spot. Make her orgasm as many times as you want, she won’t be able to do a thing.

For men you can have full access to their penis or milk his prostate. Want to have a bit of fun with him. Hold off on letting him orgasm until you decide to let him. It will drive him crazy.

Place a pillow under your partner’s hips before you start tying them up. This will make your partner more comfortable and its easier on your neck and back when playing. That way your not cranking your neck trying to get to those hard to reach areas.