A lot of people when they first get into BDSM automatically start wanting to investigate the pain aspect. Which is fine as pain definitely can have its place, but some people completely lose their soft touch. They only use pain whether its physical and/or mental to get a slave to do what they want.

If there is one important thing you should know about human nature it is we are constantly searching for pleasure in life. You will get more from your slave with a soft touch and truly understanding their body better then they understand their body. Once your slave realizes that you are capable of giving them the most powerful and intense pleasurable sensations they have ever had they will do whatever it takes for you to do it again.

If you don’t give them that gentle pleasurable touch from time to time they will look else where. Yes, they want discipline, structure, direction and even punished, but they go through all of that to please you and hoping that you will give them a pleasurable reward for such service.

Don’t make the mistake of giving your soft touch solely as a reward. Watch your subs face as they feel your power and strength radiate from your tenderness.

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